Were you spanked as a child? Many Filipinos have experienced this kind of discipline from parents. So did you turn-out to be hateful? I had my share of corporal punishment, but I did not turn-out to be hateful, or problematic.
According to Science Daily, harsh parenting can impair the emotional development of a child, possibly leading to anxiety disorders such as social phobia, separation anxiety and panic attacks.
Two local lawmakers – Representatives Bernadette Herrera–Dy of Bagong Henerasyon party-list and Susan Yap of the Second District of Tarlac- however, filed House Bill 1082, which would be called the “Anti-Corporal Punishment Act of 2010.” If approved, Those who would be caught punishing their children shall face violation of either one-day to six months imprisonment. And if the offender is the parent of the child, the court might suspend his or her parental authority.
In the US, parents have a hard time disciplining their children. You can hear kids shout back or even curse their parents publicly. And due to lack of corporal punishment, it has been perceived that American children have become spoiled and even abusive, thinking that they can get away with anything.
I am not against instilling discipline, but I am strongly against abusive punishment that can lead to a child’s injury or even death.
The bible says: “He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him.” – Proverbs 13:24
The keyword there is CAREFUL. And careful means that it should not cause any harm, danger, or put anyone at risk.